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Katherine Hepburn would have been the Ultimate Urban Leopard(ess).You might call them a MILF if you want to get slapped. It can feel wildly intimidating to be a little, vulnerable kitten tossed into a teeming cesspool of seasoned dykes. Unfortunately for us, when we decide we prefer riding the queer train and hop off at station “Girl-On-Girl,” there is no tour guide to greet us and lead the way (which is particularly sad, seeing as lesbians make for excellent tour guides).
They explain that a change in mindset is essential for women over 60 who want to find romance.
NOT an "urban cougar", but still a single or divorced woman 35 to 55, intelligent, successful, educated, secure in herself, her looks and her life. She does not seek younger men, older men or even men her own age. These women are far, far classier than the trashy "cougar".
They do not frequent bars for pick ups, hook ups or anything other than a drink and some company with their girl friends.
Not only are there statistically fewer men, but the dynamic of human engagement, and style of personal connection, has changed dramatically since we were dating in our 20’s.
Also, a lifetime of love and loss has made many women distrustful and unwilling to get back into the dating game.